Sympathy-/ Ruth Marcellus (none) I lost a husband at the age of 19 He was just 21 we were married 20 days. He was in a car accident. You never get over it. You just get threw it. You learn to help others. This has been 40plus years. I have a friend who lost a son from an accident. A sister in law who lost a daughter in an accident. It is tragic. It hurts. I think of it as the song the dance. I'm so glad to have know them all. I hope to see them again with others who have gone on. Regards Ruth
i wait every day my son for some sign,noise,anything my baby ! please my heart has suffered enough . i dont care if it is only in a dream , i need to hear your voice . i can see you in my minds eye but that isnt good enough , you now how dads are . i'm coming out one week from this coming tuesday to see ya . Son please help me get through this rough time , please !! it isnt a good day my baby . i just want to be with you my darlin . i promised you i wouldnt do this so you have to come to me .when you asked me how i would find you , through the phycic , that if it wasnt my time i would be stuck between worlds and never see you , i can not bear the thought of that . i'm gonna get you a pretty arrangement for when i come out . if i had only talked more to you my baby maybe i would of picked up on something in your words or your voice , but i didnt pick up on anything my son ,now i'm in limbo just waiting for the day to see you . need to close my son as the wipers on my glasses are broke and i cant see the keyboard . until i write and talk to you again BE GOOD , BEHAVE , I LOVE YA MY SON
spring/ Ron P. (Dad) helo my darling , it has been a long cold winter . spring is breaking and the temp is warming baby . that means i will be out to spend some time with you soon . i'm sure the snow is still too deep but in a couple weeks it wont be and i'll be there as i tried to be in your life . i miss you each and every day of my existence . you are the rainbow on dark glommy days , the geese that are flying over head now , the bright blue sky on these early spring days , you are my reason for me still being here , your memory is the tear that runs down your dads cheek every day and night . I LOVE YOU MY SON .
So sorry for your loss / Julie (passerby)
Thinking of you and your family I am so sorry for your loss of your Beautiful angel Scott God Bless x
your aunt / Ron P. (Dad) as you know by now your aunt is with you . you and my guardian did a great job making her pain free when it was time for her to leave us . another pain to endure .take care of each other son . maybe sometime soon i can join you both and the rest of the family ,as your aunt did i look forward to that time . help me son to get through this added pain .
clean up / Ron P. (dad) i made it out my darling , i'll be out more and more in the coming days my baby . i cleaned up around the area and washed down both monuments . i miss you so much , there is nothing that can compare to this empty feeling and void that is in my life , it will never go away . i'm still looking for those little american flags that you like , i put a very pretty arragement out for ya honey i hope ya like it . i'll be out soon baby . your dad and family loves you more then you'll ever know .
We remember / Elaine M. (Aunt) In the rising of the sun and its going down, We Remember Them.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter, We Remember Them.
In the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring. We Remember Them.
In the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer, We Remember Them.
In the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn. We Remember Them.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends, We Remember Them.
When we are weary and in need of strength, We Remember Them.
When we are lost and sick of heart, We Remember Them.
When we have joys and special celebrations we yearn to share, We Remember Them.
So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are part of us. We Remember Them.
By Rabbi Sylvan Kamens
and all of us won't forget because we LOVE you!
My Condolences / Wanda Scott W. Aunt I am so sorry for your loss of such a handsomd young man. I lost my nephew at the age of 20 . His name was also Scott. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May your Scott have eternity peace. Wanda Scott Walkers Aunt
x-mas/ Ron P. (dad) well its x-mas morning son , the first x-mas without you . as i think about you i have reflections of the good times and glimpses of some bad also . the good out weighs the bad by far . i still wrestle with why but there is no answer , there never will be , you took that with you . son i wait for you to come to me even in a dream i dont care , i just want to see you . PLEASE . you are in great company honey . i'm going to close baby as once again the rain is falling in the living room . MERRY X-MAS SON , i love you be good and behave .
hello my son , i talk to you daily . as x-mas and new years are coming closer i find myself in a dark hole that is completely empty , i have come to think of this as my heart and soul . they are empty and void of most feeling due to your absense . it seems as the feeling that i do retain is one that is very wet . as the holidays get closer i find myself reflecting about you and some of your antics . some make me laugh and others make me cry . as i think of the laughable ones it comes to me that there will never be any more and then the water starts . i miss you every minute of every day my baby . i have to run as i cant do anymore the water has started . i love you be good and behave !
I'm sure you will have many celebrations to attend and your heart is full of joy. We still miss you and ask a favor. Give Gramma, Grampa, and Uncle Dickie a hug and a kiss from all of us.
We miss and love you sweetie.
love, Aunt Elaine
thanksgiving/ Ron P. (dad) the first major holiday is here baby , all i can do is hope and cry . you are and were my life . remember i called you my little turkey gobbler every thanksgiving . i miss you so much , more so then anyone will ever know . i have to work today but i will be thinking of you the entire time . i love you , be good and behave my little turkey gobbler !
well my son your headstone is set , as you know . it is very pretty, i know in my heart that you like it . it was set last friday as you know but i had to work but i came out my first day off , today . i miss you so much , your brother brought over some of your belongings but i cant go through them yet . i need you my son ! i cant get over how good your stone is , i like it alot . have to go darling , i love you , be good and behave .
A prayer for Scotty and Dickie / Kelly Charron (cousin)
Open the gates, Sweet Jesus.
Your children are tired.
Their burden has been heavy.
They’ve done their best to survive.
Open your arms, Sweet Jesus,
And hold them close.
Let them feel the warmth of
Your unwavering love.
Give them beds, Sweet Jesus,
where the Angels sleep.
Let them wake whole again.
It’s a brand new day.
Comfort them, Sweet Jesus.
Tell them not to fear.
It’s going to be alright
For us down here.
thinking of you / Judy Klein (None)
I am thinking about you and praying for you. I don't always sign guest book's but Ron's birthday message really touched my heart. I lost my brother to suicide, too. It was hard to see my mom in so much pain. We had a birthday get together for my brother and said all our special memory's and such. I hope you have found a way to make this day special for you. Judy
my baby / Ron P. (dad) there are no words son , happy birthday baby , you are my little guy . the rain is falling really hard here in the living room . birthdays are to remember , and too smile about past times . i remember , but there are no smiles just tears . you cut your life short and i could do nothing to help you get past those demons . all i have is memories of past times , all i want is to hug and hold you , but i cant - i use to worry what to get you for birthdays , i just talk to you now and give you a hug and a kiss and cry alot . please son , i shouldnt be asking for anything as it is your birthday , but please help me to get through this day . i love you my baby xxxxxooooooo dad
your stone / Ron P. (dad) hello my baby , i picked out a headstone for you today it will be about a month before i get it though . they are going to make it in italy , it is very pretty , your esm picture is on it . you are going to be pleased my darling . i cant believe i was doing that , it was the hardest thing i have ever done . about half way though it the rain started in the family room and it made it twice as hard to see . it is still raining on and off . i miss you darling so very much . i love you , be good and behave .
So Very Sorry / Dawn Walsh Ron, I am so very sorry for your loss of you son, Scott. He is so handsome. Please just remember that nobody can take away your memories. You will forever hold them close to your heart. As with my own son, I hope Scott has found the peace he was searching for. He is pain free now, being held in the palm of our dear Lords hands. Ron, please know you can always talk to me, I know your pain. Dawn
letter to my son / Ron P. (dad) to my little guy, my son scott sweety its dad . at 9:50pm tonight will be 2 weeks ago when you decided to leave me by taking your life . i am not mad baby . just questioning myself as to what i could of done differently . although it was 2 weeks ago the pain , sorrow , and the remorse is unimagineable . i cant get by any of them . i wait each night when i sleep for you to come to me . as you know i am up alot during the night and when i walk through the house i exspect to see you around every corner , but it is not to be and eventually i go back to bed and cry myself to sleep . scotty i need to know if you are o.k. , please ! i am having a very hard time dealing with this whole thing as i'm sure you know . i hope and pray you hear me throughout the day as i talk to you all the time , and sometimes i say your favorite prayer for ya too . you use to call me every night at 7:30pm because you knew at that time i would be home from work . i miss so much not hearing your voice and telling you everytime when we are about to get off the phone " i love you , be good , and behave ". please scotty let me know that you are alright , but you have to make it real obvious so your old dad will realize it because i might miss seeing it through these constant tears . scotty i know that you could not stand the pain and the hurt no longer . as i have told you the demons are gone son - I love you , be good , and behave ! your dad
I Miss YOu / Colby DeCarr (Friend) I loved Scotty and always will, I miss you teriblly and will never know how much we all cared about you. You will allways be in my heart and thoughts